I am SUCH a doofus.
I use a plugin for iChat called Chax. It is basically a prog that adds miscellaneous features to iChat, most of which I think are really cool. One I use is the tabbed chat window option. I normally only keep conversations that are still going open, which is usually one with Lesley. I like to talk to her while I’m at work (or um, anywhere else, actually).
She was away cleaning and for some reason I decided to keep on bitching about stuff that she probably doesn’t care about anyway. The news went out early at work today so I had extra time to be bored. I told this to her, or at least I THOUGHT I DID. Hours later someone I work with IMed me and when I checked the message I realized that I had been griping to him. Big oops.
Luckily the few lines of convo I did accidentally send him were innocent, I only “somewhat” freaked out.